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DATING PROFILE EXAMPLES: Online Dating Profile Headlines That Win Women
by Big Mama
"IF YOU START YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE WITH A WINNING HEADLINE - YOU WILL ATTRACT & WIN WOMEN!" says relationship guru Kate Falken. Some men strike out with women, even at online dating. Other guys are finding exactly the women they want -- leading up to finding Her - the Right Woman. "It's all in a guy's Online Profile," explains Kate Falken. "Guys who struck out in high school to the jocks, and continue to strike out today in bars and parties, have a big advantage on online dating sites. They are bright, creative, sensitive - all the things that will give them the advantage in creating a superior Profile that will attract a woman." An Online Dating Profile consists of 3 parts: 1. Photo 2. Headline 3. Text Kate says, "First, she glances at your Photo. If you have groomed yourself properly and dressed in an attractive, gentlemanly way, you will get a lingering look from her that will lead to a quick glance at your Headline. "It's the HEADLINE that will attract her to you -- the follow-up Text will expand on the Headline and allow you to tell her (and all the women who find your Profile) all about the real you." As Carlos Xuma, the author of The Bad Boy Formula, puts it: "You are looking for samples of dating profiles because it's frustrating to get yourself a dating profile on some site, to then invest some time in making it awesome only to find that it was all for WAY less than expected! Am I right?" * When giving advice about writing online dating profiles, Carlos first warns guys not to "go over the top." There are several reasons why you'd want to go over-the-top with your description: 1) Women decide if you're interesting or not in seconds. They literally check out samples of dating profiles! And let me tell you: they are turned off when they smell you're wearing Desperate Dude cologne, which is when you're WAY too serious throughout your dating profile. They cringe when they read profiles that say I'm looking for Miss Right. Maybe you're a looker too, but women think about dating in a more casual way. They want to see if there are interesting guys around, but that's it (for now). Don't be a looker, show you don't take yourself too seriously. 2) All a woman has to do to date online is get a profile, and she can be approached. The result: she sees dozens of samples of dating profiles every day she's active on the site. That's when not getting her attention in seconds means goodbye. 3) 70% of all male online daters uses the description section of their dating profiles to give valueless summaries of their qualities (I'm fun, sweet, intelligent, this, that, etc.) Carlos has given three outstanding samples of dating profile Headlines: HEADLINE ONE: "Who would have thought that a nuclear disaster in Japan made me end up on this site?" That'll certainly get a woman's attention (it got YOUR attention didn't it?), after which you explain that the disaster made you stay inside, you got bored out of your freaking mind, so you signed up for the site. ANY disaster works well to grab attention with by the way. Just like most other samples of dating profiles you're about to get, this immediately let's her know you have a great sense of humor and don't take yourself too seriously. That is all you need to attract women online.
HEADLINE TWO: "WANTED: intelligent babe for this mad scientist to experiment on!" Start your text by continuing on: "You must be willing to break into laboratories to lend equipment while wearing high heels and to have extra limbs attached AND look hot while having them. You must also be able to handle stress well, because lots of responsibilities go hand in hand with taking over the world with me." Continue on describing your real background.
HEADLINE THREE: "You know, when I sat down behind a piano people laugh at first -- but when I start playing?" This is (in my opinion) one of the best samples of dating profiles, because this one brilliantly let's you use the fact that women are attracted to a man's talent. You see, you can fill in when I first tell people about my kung fu they laugh but when they see me fight during the championship? Or anything else you're good at for that matter. Women are attracted to talent because they make you seem like you're radiating with confidence, without you having to say anything. Attractive women see tons of samples of dating profiles because they get 30-50 messages on average a day! Carlos Xuma, the author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, other books and articles, has been recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys, tips on pick up artist techniques, alpha male behavior, and how to talk to girls. Xuma has spent years teaching hundreds of men, through his website, how to attract women. He has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years and has appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. For more information, visit Carlos Xuma's website at win-with-women.com or get his ebook NOW, check out the right side bar.>>>>
About the Author
I'm a Big Mama, a woman with all the trimmings, and proud of it. If you want to read articles about finding and pleasing Plus Size, Curvy Gals - BBWs - Big Beautiful Women - I recommend "Photo Gallery of Gorgeous Curvy Big Women - Finding the Best Big Women Dating Service" BBW - Big Beautiful Women . Tips for BBW and the men who love them. (Sorry, I couldn't find a working url to Big Mama's site.)