The way people look at each other, or don't look at each other often communicates far more than what we say with words!
Attraction is a very complex topic to understand, and if you really want to get into it there is a ton of information out there. But for simplicities sake, just remember the phrase coined by David DeAngelo [http://www.learn2attract.com/php/dyd.php], "attraction is NOT a choice"
Women don't say to themselves, "Oh he seems like a really cool guy, I guess I'll be attracted to him."
Nope, it's something that they either feel or don't on a deep-gut level. The part of their brain that makes that decision is about 10,000 years old.
When you see a woman you're attracted to, you KNOW that you like her, it's not something you need to analyze. From that point on you just need to try to gauge her interest in you and try to do what you can to meet her in a smooth way that ends up making you look like a cool guy.
Luckily, eye contact and attraction go hand in hand, so what you do with your eyes can really help you out in both of these areas. not only can it be used to tell if she likes you but it can also be used to make her like you, how sweet is that!
Here's how how it works to tell if she is interested in a nutshell:
A girl's willingness to maintain eye contact with you can be is a very telling sign that she is attracted to you. Understand, most women will never lock eyes with a guy whom they are completely uninterested in. So, if you are curious whether a woman is interested or not, try to establish eye-contact with her and see what happens. If she refuses to look you in the eye, that's bad, but try it out, you'll probably be surprised how open women can be toflirting eye contact.
Now here's how you use eye contact to make her like you even more than she already does:
In the early stages of an interaction, eye contact is a great way to signal your interest and give a girl a chance to respond before you approach her. I sincerely feel that the majority of times that a guy approaches and gets turned down could be avoided if he just understood the way eye contact and attraction work together and gauged a womans interest level first. It's really much more polite if you think about it, instead of just jumping on a girl like a ravenous beast use eye contact flirting first to test out the waters.
There are a number of ways to do this, here are good ones:
1) Let her "catch you" checking her
When you see a girl you are attracted to, go ahead and look at her! Don't stare at her boobs like a pervert, but definetly examine her a bit. You can start with her face then check out her hair, then her torso, waist, legs, and then right back up again. When you get back to her face chances are she will have noticed and she'll want to see how you react when she "catches you." The trick is not to look like an embaressed 13 year old!
2) Be comfortable with your eyes.
Don't keep looking around nervously, or staring at her and then looking away quickly. These things will make you look like a weak, unmasculine chump. Think about a lion out on the desert, he's got no predators so he just lays back and surveys the horizon with a steady gaze.
3) Don't overdo the eye contact
We've already established the close connection between eye contact and attraction, and while it is an important tool for non-verbal communication Don't make the mistake of coming on too strong with your sensual stares. Once you realize how cool it is, t's easy to get carried away.
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